I have had discussions with several women about “mother moments”. It distills down to this. Once you get into the habit of giving tips it’s hard to stop.
Despite ourselves, the general consensus is you can give the advice as long as you don’t attach anything to it.
At all times you must respect the fact that the choice is theirs. And support whatever decision is made.
So if some woman gives you unsolicited advice, smile, understand that she is probably a mother and realize you are not obligated to do what she suggests.