The Door swings both ways. I saw a great live Facebook video. The woman receives the wisdom, the door opens in. If you are pushing too hard you might be keeping the door from opening.
To that I would add, in her specific case it clearly brought great clarity. I would suggest though that doors swing both ways and the challenge may be to reduce the resistance to change, you may need to push it as well. The key is to allow the door to open in either direction by neither pushing or pulling too hard.
Love the post, you may wanna take a look at it, unfortunately, I forgot where I saw it…sorry.