Metaphorically, the changes to my bedroom are a reflection of the external changes I want to make.
First, I opened access. I have been working on that and there is some light coming through the doorway, but only a crack.
As of yet, I am openly announcing that I am interested in meeting men. I’ve spoken to trusted friends and co-workers, but few at arm’s length.
I also find a reluctance to try on-line dating. If he exists, someone must know him. I can’t imagine a friendly guy with no friends.
So my only active plan was to just let everybody know. Let them describe me as they know me, not a self written description in an add.
I can’t believe there aren’t better ways to co-exist. North America seems to be missing the point when it comes to getting out and enjoying ourselves.
The best times are social and we’re minimizing that time. In Spain the cities are designed so that buildings and services surround great plazas that are designed for social gatherings. They are the same places bands play and ceremonies are held. People physically meet. We have very little of that in North America.